So lately I’ve been having some problems with writing because I tend to judge myself quite harshly and I’ve really come in contact with that tendency in me.

I really have this feeling inside that I have a lot to say and I should just write all the time, but it’s a little bit difficult.

Sometimes I just end up not doing the work instead and procrastinating a lot, although from my experience the outcome just tends to be like nothing if I look at it like that.

I have a feeling that I could produce many books right now but I just tend to judge my own writing so much and think it’s not as good as someone else’s that I admire.

So I have to talk about this, and I have a feeling that it’s what many of us creative, artistic people go through from time to time.

I could say that I suffer from a perfectionistic tendency a little bit. In the end, writing is just writing – it doesn’t have to be perfect to be good.

So I think this is super important to stay aware of, just perfectionism in creating art and I am glad that it has been a topic on my social media feed lately.

Perfectionism Is Lethal

I truly need to say this, perfectionism is the killer of progress. We only can truly create what we are capable of creating when we drop the need for it to be perfect and we have to be with the possibility of someone criticizing something that we say, and also that someone might not like it.

True courage is the readiness to face such adversity, such as criticism, too.

I definitely have a fear of being criticized and it sometimes makes me want to stop posting all together. Especially when you’re doing free content that feeling of someone simply criticizing you is pretty bad and I’d say it’s there for a reason. But I think you can relate with me that it feels pretty bad producing something for free and then all you get is criticized for it.

I want to go a little bit into careers here and I really feel that this paid project is so good for many reasons and it allows the creator to really stay on track with how many people are interested in the project, and the money really is the fuel for the business to grow and be sustainable.

If all you do is free content then you’re not really getting paid for it and it becomes also probably pretty hard to do any paid advertising if you don’t have any budget for it.

Now if we talk about paid advertising, I can’t say if it’s the right move or not. I’ve done some of it but all I can see is analytics briefly going up and then returning to normal-low levels after that.

Since the nature of this is just me posting in the internet, it can be hard to measure how many people are interested in for example, buying this membership from me to read my stuff, and study with me further down the line, as I intend to create this as a course you can take and apply in your own life.

Big Focus On Applicable

One of the big value promises I want to make is that if you decide to buy this project and support my work, you will gain that value back ten fold.

I want this project to be worth so much to people that paying 49/month for it is a non-brainer, and if you’re a businessperson too, then I really do recommend having maybe a similar price tag if that’s what you’re looking for.

I want to make it just as good as a gym membership for example, which could be priced at a similar rate.

So for this post I wanted to dive deep into the philosophy of what life is all about, and that’s what I intend to do.

What is the good life? How do we live it? These are some of the contemplative questions that I’ve came up with and they are really the main point of why I’ve started this project in the first place.

I want to crack the code of a beautiful life and how to live one. There has to be something mysterious, possibly hidden in being a human and existing.

Also, on a side note here, how does one create something that is really worth the money as a writer and a coach?

The Value of Coaching

It should probably come down to the value that the customer is getting.

For example Compassion is one of those topics that deeply interests me and there’s even this myth of The Rainbow Body what can manifest from deep enlightenment and probably has something to do with the heart chakra or so.

Apparently when an enlightened being dies, their bodies can become small somehow, like shrink and their heart areas can feel warm for days after the death, apparently.

There Might Be A Truth

To be honest I’ve heard such stories before and to be real I like to believe that there is a reality to them. Many wise people talk of such things.

So we will be talking a lot about mystical and occult topics here on AapoSol.com, and if you’re reading this, I am sure you are interested.

So thank you, and let’s make something epic happen here.

Btw if you have any topics that you’d like me to touch upon, be sure to leave me a comment. (There should be a comment section down there, if so.)

So what is life all about? This is question that humanity has been asking for aeons.

I am not sure if there’s a straight answer to it, if there is, I don’t have it in my mind right now, yet.

One answer might be from various religious traditions, for example The Shaivists believe that life is a process of realizing our inner divinity, and playing.

So life is like a Divine Play. All about exploring reality and everything it has to offer – that’s what mysticism comes down to.

Eternity is like a desert under the night sky. That’s how I came up with this specific piece of art.

We should all take the time to ponder the nature of our existence in this universe.

It can really make our lives better and we can even start living from this place of awe and wonder.

If we truly stop to think of Truth and the universe. If we stop and become silent and just look at reality, it might even bring a tear to our eyes, due to the sheer beauty of everything.

The universe is truly a miracle. We need to remember that.

So take a minute and just breathe and gently elongate your back. Stay straight just for a minute and perhaps close your eyes, if you’d like a meditation to go with it.

That’s why I think the good life involves a meditativeness. That’s how our minds become still and silent and we get to experience the wonder of being alive a lot more deeply.